Hey guys, The Cody here again with yet another blog. Yes, about porn stars. Bite me. I recently posted about Siri, in her effort to with the Hot Movies Tournament. Now, I have something else I would like to blog about.
I recently read an article published by The Daily Beast called "Porn Stars Can Be Sexually Assaulted Too" and I was kind of inspired to write this blog based on what the article said. Basically, the article was about how women in porn get the stereo type label. When they are sexually assaulted, people believe they deserve it or asked for it because they make a living having sex. Also, how some fans things it is okay to grab on them and touch them whenever they want.
I think people who haven't read the article should check it out here http://thebea.st/1HAZ64L It is a very heavy duty article, that speaks the truth. I have been saying this for a long time, I am just a regular fan. I am not a porn star, I am not someone who works behind the scenes so maybe I do not understand the struggle too much. But, I have always said that I think women in the adult industry should be treated better than they do. Just because they make a living in the sex industry, does not mean you can always ask them if they will fuck you.
You should treat them, like you would treat any other woman. And this statement is not for the men out there who think it is okay to use and abuse women, you fools should just go jump off a cliff somewhere. No, this statement is for the men who actually want to have decent relationships and become the luckiest man in the world, by having a woman you love, fall in love with you.
Let me give you an example. My favorite porn stars in the world are Katrina Jade and Karmen Karma, I absolutely think they are the most unbelievably beautiful women God has ever created. Yes, they make their living having sex. However, I see them as much more than porn stars. Too be honest, as cheesy as this sounds. My fantasy, is not to have sex with them, but it is to take them out on a date. I would really love to spend an evening with Katrina Jade and get to know her as a person, find out what makes her tick, ask her to tell the story about how her and her husband met, what's her favorite heavy metal bad. You know, buy her blood red roses, pick her up and just make that beautiful smile shine all night long. Things like that, is what I really would love to do with them....not spend the whole time hoping they will fuck me just because they are porn stars.
I promise you, you are more likely to get an interaction from an adult film star by being respectful too them. Then asking them "Hey, when can we fuck?" or "Hey, you fuck for a living, can you fuck me too?" Most, if not all porn stars, will ignore those messages. Be creative, be original, make them smile. Hell, some of them really like cheesy comments (I am the king of those.)
Also, before I end this blog I really would like to address the Christy Mack situation that took place a few months ago. I never really had a chance to give thoughts on it due to the fact I have been really busy with my new life and just have now recently found free time. But, I am so sickened by what happened to her. I am not going to go into details, because in the off chance she reads this I do not want her to be reminded of anything. But what really is just as appalling as the attack itself, is the fact that some morons say that she deserved it because she is a porn star.
What the fucking fuck? No woman on this planet, deserves that kind of shit. Let alone Christy Mack. Who in the blue green hell, do you people think you are, suggesting someone deserves that just because they work in the sex industry? So, does that mean I should come beat the shit out of you because you make a living out of being an asshole? You going to walk up to a boxer and try to fight him, because they box for a living.....oh hell they take beatings in the ring so it is only natural they take one outside of the ring too. The trolls who think Christy deserved what happened to her, are probably the ones still living in their mother's basement jerking off to World of War Craft and Power Rangers. The only kind of action they get is when they eat Taco Bell, and get the after effects.
I also would like to say, Christ Mack's interview on ESPN.com really truly did inspire me. See, I am a guy who thinks of his self as the ugliest man on the planet (besides Miley Cyrus) because of my history with women. I once had a woman express interest in me, invite me out on a date, I bought her flowers. Got all dressed up. Waited for her, for a few hours before finally getting a hold of her and she said "Did you really think I'd go out with you?" then went on to post something on Facebook saying really harsh and cruel things. Than had 42 (yes 42) comments suggesting I was fat, ugly, disgusting...and one said that I should kill myself for the sake of women every where. I have always looked back in the mirror, disgusted at what I see. And then I read Christy's interview on ESPN and I was inspired. I mean, for her to go through what she did, to have to get surgery and shave her hair. And embrace her new look. If she can do that, so can I. Right? I think she is still one of the most gorgeous women to walk the planet. And maybe one day, I can think of myself as a handsome man even if the world doesn't think so.
Well that will do it for this blog. I hope you guys enjoyed it, hey I respect all porn stars. My two biggest crushes in the world are porn stars so I can't help but be very defensive of them some times. So, I had to post this blog in response to that article. So that some porn stars know that, not all men are perverts who only care about getting one thing from them. I love all you guys and I will see you when I see you. Says.......
The Cody
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